I often imagine the shiny new person I can become if I follow all the right steps. I will eat only organic whole foods. I will make all our food from scratch. I will stop drinking alcohol and eating sweets and desserts. I will run everyday and keep getting faster and faster. My house will be completely organized and the laundry won't make my bed look like a mountain. Many of these things will never happen or at least not all at once. However I am taking small steps to claim my spot as a runner. I signed up for the B.A.A. Distance Medley. This include a 5K April 19th, a 10K June 22nd and the B.A.A. half marathon on October 12th.
The B.A.A. half marathon last year was the first race I ran to specifically raise money in honor of my Mom. Ian and Mom were on the street cheering for me half way through the race. I saw mom all bundled up against the cold and smiling. I gave her a Boston Strong bracelet and we both cried. As I rounded the corner and started on the uphill half of the race I had trouble catching my breath because I knew she did not have much time left. My mother passed away from cancer on October 31st 2013 about two and a half weeks after I finished that half marathon.
I thought that I would be able to keep up with my running after Mom died, but it turns out that grief is an extremely exhausting process. I am so tired I can't get up at 5am like I used to. Alcohol is an enticing friend at the end of a long day. A glass of wine can easily turn into a bottle or two for me. I know that in my life I need to stop drinking. Running is the way I know to do that. I sign up for a race that means something to me and I stop drinking. I have made the stakes higher this time. I will not drink alcohol again until I break 2:00 in the half marathon. This is easy for a lot of runners, but not me. I am developing my routine and I can cover distances, but I am slow. My training depends on no drinking. I sleep better and I recover better. I need this now more than ever. I have limped along running once or twice a week. Now that will all change.
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14 years ago